Wedding planning isn’t usually part of our work at Rush. But a team from across the Medical Center recently worked together to make it possible for a dying father to see his daughter get married.
Rachel Halonen and Ian Marano were wed in a quickly arranged ceremony in the Rush Chapel on Saturday, Dec. 21, followed by a reception for 70 friends and relatives. The Chicago couple had planned their wedding for this coming September, but they moved up the date and changed the location when they learned that Sam Halonen, Rachel’s father and a patient at Rush, only had days left to live.
“I still can’t believe it all happened,” Rachel says. “It was incredible. It was a beautiful day, so much love and so many tears.”
Sam suffered from myelodysplastic syndrome, a bone marrow disease that impairs the production of certain blood cells. Diagnosed with the illness in the summer of 2012, Sam had received a stem cell transplant at Rush in March and had spent most of the past six months hospitalized. On Dec. 17, Sam’s physicians told him and his wife, Penny Halonen, that he was near the end of his life.
Rachel and Ian quickly decided to try to hold their wedding at Rush that weekend and asked Sam’s caregivers for help arranging it. They were directed to Eleanor Welch in the Department of Religion, Health and Human Values, who made the Rush Chapel available. They also sought out Terry Maynard, director of Hospital Guest Relations, who helped arrange for the use of Room 500 for the reception and coordinated the donation of a wedding cake from catering.